How to be more social as an introvert-by Nosa Obaseki
HOW TO BE MORE SOCIAL AS AN INTROVERT.
Be Aware Of Friendship Preferences.
Different people make friends in different ways. Trust me, Some people are only interested in very close friendships, while others like having both close friends and casual friends. There is also the type of person who doesn’t like to have close friends at all, (You gotta be kidding me) they only have fun friends and contacts, and confide in their family members.
It will take you more time to form close friendships than casual ones. Knowing this, you need to pay attention to other people, and ask yourself if they have the time and are ready for the commitment of being a close friend of yours. That said, you may meet great people (Like me *Big Smile), but you couldn’t make friends with them unless your friendship preferences are compatible(For real)
Check out this awesome way to tackle that.
How To Be More Social Using Social Rituals.
Because your instincts do not influence you to go socialize, you need to be proactive about it and set a couple of conditions that will help you be more social without thinking about it too much.
A great way to do this is to set social rituals( Hello, too much Nigerian film, it's not one of those Kanayo .O. Kanayo rituals) : A weekly ritual that reminds you to take an hour and follow up with people you know, and a monthly one that allows you to meet new people.
With your weekly ritual, which is nothing more than a reminder in your calendar, you take one hour to call( It's achievable during the day, not Night call only, buy card and call *Tongues out*), text, or email people with whom you have an active friendship, or people you just met and want to see again(Girls would want to see me again *blushing*). This helps you do it all at one point, and enjoy the rest of your week knowing that you’re not ignoring people. This also helps you catch up with new people in your life.
Your monthly ritual is some kind of subscription to a club or interest group that holds monthly events, where you can meet new people. You won’t be choosing a new club every month, you just find a good one and stick with it. To make it work even better, try and join the organizing team, this will almost
force you to attend every time.
With these two rituals, you’ll always stay in touch with the important friends and potential friends, and really take control of the pace of your social life.
To simplify your life, follow the two-step formula: explore new friendships + connect them with the existing ones.
Simple as ECO
112 right, Lol.
To simplify your life, follow the two-step formula: explore new friendships + connect them with the existing ones.
I'm that social FBI (Freshest Benin Indigene) Nosa Obaseki- Political Science
Happy Social Life Uniben.
Be Aware Of Friendship Preferences.
Different people make friends in different ways. Trust me, Some people are only interested in very close friendships, while others like having both close friends and casual friends. There is also the type of person who doesn’t like to have close friends at all, (You gotta be kidding me) they only have fun friends and contacts, and confide in their family members.
It will take you more time to form close friendships than casual ones. Knowing this, you need to pay attention to other people, and ask yourself if they have the time and are ready for the commitment of being a close friend of yours. That said, you may meet great people (Like me *Big Smile), but you couldn’t make friends with them unless your friendship preferences are compatible(For real)
Check out this awesome way to tackle that.
How To Be More Social Using Social Rituals.
Because your instincts do not influence you to go socialize, you need to be proactive about it and set a couple of conditions that will help you be more social without thinking about it too much.
A great way to do this is to set social rituals( Hello, too much Nigerian film, it's not one of those Kanayo .O. Kanayo rituals) : A weekly ritual that reminds you to take an hour and follow up with people you know, and a monthly one that allows you to meet new people.
With your weekly ritual, which is nothing more than a reminder in your calendar, you take one hour to call( It's achievable during the day, not Night call only, buy card and call *Tongues out*), text, or email people with whom you have an active friendship, or people you just met and want to see again(Girls would want to see me again *blushing*). This helps you do it all at one point, and enjoy the rest of your week knowing that you’re not ignoring people. This also helps you catch up with new people in your life.
Your monthly ritual is some kind of subscription to a club or interest group that holds monthly events, where you can meet new people. You won’t be choosing a new club every month, you just find a good one and stick with it. To make it work even better, try and join the organizing team, this will almost
force you to attend every time.
With these two rituals, you’ll always stay in touch with the important friends and potential friends, and really take control of the pace of your social life.
To simplify your life, follow the two-step formula: explore new friendships + connect them with the existing ones.
Simple as ECO
112 right, Lol.
To simplify your life, follow the two-step formula: explore new friendships + connect them with the existing ones.
I'm that social FBI (Freshest Benin Indigene) Nosa Obaseki- Political Science
Happy Social Life Uniben.
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