The problem with Feminism: by David Seki
The problem with Feminism
To show respect for the girl folks, I had to wait a day after the international day for the girl child to write this. Kudos to the female community for pressing it on the world to serve justice to women. However, they must realize that this issue of feminism is taking another turn — putting their male counterparts to less than what they should be.
This whole thing started with weak women struggling to become strong, and they got stronger and passed on this strength to their daughters [in the war]. Now they are strong and they are no longer defending, but attacking, forgetting that some of the innocent males are, as well, attacked and wounded. You have many girl-child associations trying to build women in the society to become equal (unfortunately bigger) than their male counterparts. Which got me thinking, who would become the bread winners of tomorrow's home, him or her? While there are few opportunities for men, there are a growing number opportunities for both young and older women, with associations neglecting the guys that should be the providers. It's a war against injustice, but like every other war, if not controlled, could blow out of proportion.
I know, all these began because of the abuse on women by men. But Ladies gotta chill, 'cos Boys get abused too. Almost the same way women get abused. And they are sometimes abused by women. It happens on both sides of the proposed [man-woman] equation, but the woman side of it is just louder, and I don't see equality in the future, but a bunch of guys handled by a whole lot of alpha females. This would disrupt the family lifestyle (Woman takes care of the house and grow the kids in love, while the man goes out to till the earth for daily bread). It basically was how God designed it to be. Or say, you don't believe in God; that's our evolutionary construct — female bears child growing characters and features, while male bears family provisional characters (muscles aren't for backing backing babies). Trying to turn things around is just bad for our world.
I'm not saying women should not fight for justice. Not at all. But they are doing it wrong. Man and Woman are not equal, and can never be equal. They shouldn't even be compared with one another, because it is useless. I can't bear child as a man, neither can a woman produce the male germ cells to fertilize that of the female. If the woman becomes the boss and provider of the home, who will take care of the child, the man? I'm, sorry. I can tell you men do not have the emotional capabilities to help children grow (except you are asking for a soldier ant or walking stick). Our hormones and protein manifestation are specialized to provision of resources, and not catering for the young, as we can see in what they manifest. This war, is just going the wrong way. Finding a woman working 8 hours everyday day when she has a child of about two years is terribly bad for us. Day care and school aren't good enough for child development. Education is (especially from the mother). Mothers should be close to children and fathers should shelter mothers and their children.
Now, on the issue of abuse on boys as well. A woman touching a guy's crotches without his approval is abuse. Men get raped as well, but they have to keep it silent because of the shame (just like in women), boys get abused too by older women (since boys do not get sex education, they often do not know what happened until they eventually get to know what sex means when they grow older), women drug men and sleep with them, female bosses invite their handsome male employees into affairs, and etcetera!
Women and men (young boys and girls inclusive) should be taught their duties in the home and the importance of respecting one another. Recruiting young women into places where men should be is not a fight for equality, but a struggle for supremacy by women, over men...
To show respect for the girl folks, I had to wait a day after the international day for the girl child to write this. Kudos to the female community for pressing it on the world to serve justice to women. However, they must realize that this issue of feminism is taking another turn — putting their male counterparts to less than what they should be.
This whole thing started with weak women struggling to become strong, and they got stronger and passed on this strength to their daughters [in the war]. Now they are strong and they are no longer defending, but attacking, forgetting that some of the innocent males are, as well, attacked and wounded. You have many girl-child associations trying to build women in the society to become equal (unfortunately bigger) than their male counterparts. Which got me thinking, who would become the bread winners of tomorrow's home, him or her? While there are few opportunities for men, there are a growing number opportunities for both young and older women, with associations neglecting the guys that should be the providers. It's a war against injustice, but like every other war, if not controlled, could blow out of proportion.
I know, all these began because of the abuse on women by men. But Ladies gotta chill, 'cos Boys get abused too. Almost the same way women get abused. And they are sometimes abused by women. It happens on both sides of the proposed [man-woman] equation, but the woman side of it is just louder, and I don't see equality in the future, but a bunch of guys handled by a whole lot of alpha females. This would disrupt the family lifestyle (Woman takes care of the house and grow the kids in love, while the man goes out to till the earth for daily bread). It basically was how God designed it to be. Or say, you don't believe in God; that's our evolutionary construct — female bears child growing characters and features, while male bears family provisional characters (muscles aren't for backing backing babies). Trying to turn things around is just bad for our world.
I'm not saying women should not fight for justice. Not at all. But they are doing it wrong. Man and Woman are not equal, and can never be equal. They shouldn't even be compared with one another, because it is useless. I can't bear child as a man, neither can a woman produce the male germ cells to fertilize that of the female. If the woman becomes the boss and provider of the home, who will take care of the child, the man? I'm, sorry. I can tell you men do not have the emotional capabilities to help children grow (except you are asking for a soldier ant or walking stick). Our hormones and protein manifestation are specialized to provision of resources, and not catering for the young, as we can see in what they manifest. This war, is just going the wrong way. Finding a woman working 8 hours everyday day when she has a child of about two years is terribly bad for us. Day care and school aren't good enough for child development. Education is (especially from the mother). Mothers should be close to children and fathers should shelter mothers and their children.
Now, on the issue of abuse on boys as well. A woman touching a guy's crotches without his approval is abuse. Men get raped as well, but they have to keep it silent because of the shame (just like in women), boys get abused too by older women (since boys do not get sex education, they often do not know what happened until they eventually get to know what sex means when they grow older), women drug men and sleep with them, female bosses invite their handsome male employees into affairs, and etcetera!
Women and men (young boys and girls inclusive) should be taught their duties in the home and the importance of respecting one another. Recruiting young women into places where men should be is not a fight for equality, but a struggle for supremacy by women, over men...
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